Ninth, hint opportunity
Ninth, hint opportunity (1) of good opinion
It is in everybody animal why each is complicated, it have bad one tooing good, and the good side that have alone frequently is exactly what
another person has not had, so, that person will express good opinion to him when being appropriate. Certainly may include a lot of other
reasons too among them, it is that people and the people will take a shine to in a word a bit, unless and in can not also not when being the
appropriate showing, then,it is on earth when being the appropriate in this when, this is a question.
Hint to others it is all right at any time that good opinion is not, this is a kind of very private expression, if you want to hint aptly, not only should
pay attention to the way, method, should pay attention to the opportunity even more, appropriate good opinion that in the appropriate
opportunity to hint to the other side in an appropriate way, can often bring the unexpected harvest to you.
Then, when is the opportunity suitable on earth, mainly have the following several big class:
1,When both sides got along alone
That is to say you and the other side are an opportunity suitable when getting along alone. For example, when taking a walk together, or when
drinking tea at noon together you, you can be by expressing the good opinion to the other side appropriately at this time. But a lot of people do
not like expressing one’s own good opinion directly, it doesn’t matter, you can take a way to attack by innuendo to express. For example you can
express one’s own view properly through praising his clothing, in fact the other side of the meaning that this view includes understands too,
except that both sides have not said clearly; Even you can again careful a button to reach the other side, a muffler, so long as you praise the other
side appropriately, can show too you have a good impression on the other side.
The method seem, suitable for two with all right fine long hair under people of grade speak without hesitancy, only. However, if you want to
express good opinion to your superior or your boss, you are also all right to be appropriate when two people got along alone to show, but the
one that should pay attention to is, you should not be through praising the other side’s clothes, cap or muffler and so on while getting along with
the boss alone, but should state by work, decision or benefit in this respect, for example you can praise the other side’s decision wisdom, work are
responsible for seriously or even the view is unique.
Because the most thing talked about between you and bosses of higher authorities is things at work, as much as topic talked about between the
friends and complicated as usually. So, should be careful at this time, fear that the words are misunderstood by the other side after saying by
mistake by oneself, even is misunderstood by the person around, so can’t just reach that result.
The relation between boss and the staff is very delicate. If a employee among them is with closer relation that the boss follows, will be
misunderstood by other people, the even serious words will also produce a lot of unnecessary trouble. In a word, say to your boss or superior
good opinion should be implicit, prudent.
Certainly in life, we will also keep in touch with a lot of old men, if you will express one’s own respect and feeling worshipped to an old man,
must notice even more. Listen to the flattery in love like child to a great extent in the elderly’s personality, listen to the good word that others told
him in love. So, you can catch this characteristic to when the old man express good opinion, speak more good words to him, praise more his
brilliant past, in this way the other side can understand you too.
There is one of the most important points that is that you can be through when celebrating birthday for the elderly, send some special presents to
the other side, for example commemorative album of the Long March of the Red Army of workers and peasants,etc. belong to his thing of that
times, the old man is certain to like, then, he can experience your good opinion to him too.
2,Good opinion that the public occasion is hinting
Hint to the other side good opinion actually has many kinds of routes, it is not the time to talk and only get along to combine alone and express,
it is even if at public can the Israel one. For example when having a meeting, you pass the view of supporting the other side, even you can also
defend the other side at the crucial moment, let the other side experience you and he stand together, at this time, you are in the good opinion of
signalling you to the other side unintentionally.
Another kind a lot of people discuss when in someone together, you can be by speaking more the other side’s good words sincerely, praise the
other side much much, it is actually the good opinion of signalling you to the other side too at this time, don’t afraid the words can not be spread,
because Chinese like passing on a message most, so long as you praise of him afford to pass on a message into people again one day, by the
time, hinting that has just finished of you, the other side has just understood.
3,Signal your good opinion to the other side in particular occasion and situation
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